Advice i once gave Another friend.

everything happens for a reason love. and its not always up to us to figure out that reason. sometimes you just need to accept what has been put on your plate, and fiugure out how to devour it with joy and happiness. dont let any guilt, doubt, anger, or hate bring you to a point where you begin to regret ANYTHING. because ultimatley, the choices YOU made in the past are the result of \your present/future. and once you start second guessing that, and regretting that, you start to doubt everything about who you are/have become. and theres absolutley nothing wrong with you and what you are doing. everyone has their own pathway/destiny to embark on. who's to say this isint your's? Embrass it with open arms and love, and leave NO room for doubt,regret and fear.
Love youuu!!!

Limitations

Limitations live only in our minds. But if we use our imaginations, our possibilities become limitless. I laugh, I love, I hope, I try, I hurt, I need, I fear, I cry. And I know you do the same things too, So we're really not that different, me and you. Being happy doesn't mean that everything is perfect. It means that you've decided to look beyond the imperfections.”

Listen to Yourself.

"do whatever you wish to do, whatever your heart and mind desire's, follow it. but once those same tools (heart and mind) tell you its over..listen, because not listning is the same as going against yourself. and when you go against what everything inside of you is telling you, you begin to become stuck. never get stuck..keep moving"
-JayBerd

!ife!

“Life is a culmination of the past, an awareness of the present, an indication of a future beyond knowledge, the quality that gives a touch of divinity to matter...Success is usually the culmination of controlling failure.”

Good Quote

"This journey has allowed a more profound view and understanding of life. In the blink of an eye, the story that is yours will conclude. How would you want your story to be told? Create yourself and be a legend.
Live, Love, Laugh, Forgive."

a bit about me..

                                                                                                October 16^th, 2010

Being that Pisces falls last on the zodiac chart, I’ve pretty much got mix of traits of ALL the zodiacs. I’m really into numerology, astrology, psychology, communications, the Buddhist teachings, music, and philosophy...anything that allows my mind to actually work and process information I am interested in. I like failure; it’s a good friend of mine. I love living and learning from mistakes. It just builds character and allows me to achieve so much more in life. I’m a very down to human being, and I’ve got love to spread around this whole universe. I may only be 20, but most people that know me can agree with me when I say "I have an old soul". I’m a bit wiser than your average 20 year old. I don’t really want people to define me with that phrase, but it does make me feel that much more unique when it comes to my peers.  I look for specific characteristics when it comes to any kind of relationship I get myself involved in; be it a romantic or friendship relationship. I can read people very easy, and know within seconds whether or not they will be a positive or negative person to have around/ in my life. I’ve been thru too many lows in my short period of time on this earth for me to waste my time trying to be-friend people who just don’t want change or any guidance. I am not perfect, nor am I striving to reach perfection(?), but I don’t mind the everyday growth, challenges, and change that come with living. My purpose on this planet is much more than just living for me. I feel that each and every one of us has many purposes and reasons for living. Some similar, some different, But our primary purpose in life is to find out what we live for? What drives us? What can we do to make a difference in the environment that surrounds us? Be in our; homes, communities, countries or the world.

*Loving one another

*Equality

*Respect

*Peace

*Money & power (Baddddd)

My Own Philosophy(S) On Life

December 26^th,2009

Part ONE.

They say...
money=power. i have very little money, yet so much power over people's emotions and overall mood. It’s crazy! But, I’m intrigued.
I love when people stare sooo cold at me. You toot up your face, and give the dirtiest looks when I walk past your way, & I smile. I Laugh at you, and the fact that just my presence alone gets to you, yet when you see me, I’m nothing BUT smiles, ear to ear. Why can’t you embrace me for what you see, instead of shunning me due to your unnecessary beliefs?
JayBerd.
Philos.101

Future Tense;
I’m going to be someone Important in history. I’m going to make change for the better. My name WILL be remembered for years to come. I WILL leave my mark on this world. Nothing is Impossible for me, but timing is always key. FUCK the Fame & fortune; I’m doing this because it is my duty as a civilized Human Being. It’s time to WAKE UP world, especially those of you between the ages of 15-25.

We are indeed, the last of a dying breed. We need to begin this process of change NOW!
Start using your brain and thinking outside the box. Don’t let society be the makeup of how you run your life, because when it comes down to it, we all have our own brains, thoughts and ideas.

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                                                                                PART 2

I just feel there is one main, moral lesson were supposed to know, understand, and practice. And thats love ourselves, love one another EUQUALLY and as a whole. No seaperation of any sort. What comes from the earth shouldnt have a price tag on it. Everything belongs to everyone. We need to learn how to share and give more. And not expect anything back, ... We need to be connected with the earth more, we’ve depreciated its value drasticly. And it seems as though were being punished by it for that same reason. As for "Gods"..idk about that..yet? I havent quite figured that out. I guess im not ready for  that.? I do believe there are higher powers though. Just dont know what exactley. Idk. But I do know this is a feeling I have within me. I cant shun them no matter how hard I try.

                                                                                                                                                                July 16,2010

Quality begins on the INSIDE, and then works its way out." Bob Moawad. Self respect, thats where it starts. If you cant respect yourself, you cant respect anyone. And no one will respect you. We gotta break this cycle people. Lets ALL; Give Thanks, Show Love, Be United, Show Peace & Be Respectful. Everyday. And I bet you you will wake up each morning and be that much more greatful to be alive. Lets value each other and the remains of this beautiful place we call home

To Love One's Self

                                                                                                                          September 7th, 2010

To love one-self is the beginning of a life-long romance. You must love yourself before you love another. By accepting yourself and fully being what you are, your simple presence can make others happy. You could explore the universe looking for someone who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, and you will not find that person. If you are not good at loving yourself, you will have a very difficult time loving ANYONE else. You’ll resent the time and energy you give another person, because you aren’t even giving yourself that same time and energy. It’s not an easy task for a lot of people out there, especially when it comes to this superficial society. The most terrifying thing is to accept oneself completely. It’s a timely process that takes dedication and effort on your part, you have to WANT to change, and separate yourself from everything/one that’s not positive in your life. Get to know YOU, spend some time with YOU, and talk to YOU. Just become one with yourself, and you will see the power you will begin to unlock. With ease.

Stop looking for other people to make your life easy. Stop looking for people to help you cope with the pain, stress and bullshit you go thru on a daily. Get up and be pro-active about it. I hate seeing people complain and bitch and nag about every single little thing they are going thru, but don’t even do anything to fix the situation. Just complain. I know a lot of people who are in waaaay worst positions, yet they don’t even complain half as much. Accept whatever situation you are in, or try and figure out a solution.  It’s your life when it comes down to it. And no matter how much you tell yourself you are happy with your materialistic desires, you’re really not. Sometimes you have to let go, just so you can grab hold again. Until you experience living with NOTHING, you will NEVER know how to appreciate the smallest things, and how grand they TRULY are.

“Be yourself, don’t take anyone’s shit. And never let them take you alive” You should listen to yourself more. You are your own worst enemy, and once you realize that, you will start to see just how crazy this place has become. Take a few steps back from out of the spot light for once, and actually observe what’s going on with an un-bias eye. Above all, be true to yourself, if you cannot put your heart into it, take yourself out of it.

Is there any love in this world?  I sometimes  wonder about this phrase.
From the outside looking in; you see a world full of chaos and madness, Evil and deception, fame and fortunes, greed and power.  You see a civilization that has come just short of their full capabilities. A world filled with hopeful wishers instead of positive believers. A world whose main soul purpose in life is to obtain a life full of money, wealth materialistic objects, and power. A word where people will risk any and everything for the quickest fix to life and its problems.  A World Where Everyone Is More Insecure Than Its Been Ever...so Concerned With....... Instead of a world who needs to

Sometimes we just need someone to show us something we can’t see for ourselves, and then we change forever.

 "Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma - which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of other's opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.”

Change

i will go down in history. you will remember my name, and what i stood for. i will make some change in this world. but first, im starting with me. then, i will begin with you.

i will go down in history. you will remember my name, and what i stood for. i will make some change in this world. but first, im starting with me. then, i will begin with you.

                                                                                                       December 9th,2010
i will go down in history.
you will remember my name,  and what i stood for.
i will make some change in this world.
but first,
im starting with me.
then,
i will begin with you.

Advice i once gave to a good friend.

Well good. I’m glad you are taking the necessary steps to continue on living, it shows just how strong you are. so good call on going to the doc, calling the police, and reaching out to someone(s) for support...most victims just suppress ALL their pain and emotion(almost as if they no longer enjoy/care about life), and want revenge, or become really depressed and those two options aren’t what I see in you. You’re strong, and determined. And consider that your armor/support/protection/shield/defense mechanism...whatever u want to call it, it’s the thing that will help you survive best in life when put in situations like this. Just know that you are indeed a victim, we know this. But don’t get stuck in the victims roll. You have to now just put it behind you, I know it’s hard, but you can do it. You are still alive, and by the grace of God, I know you will still be healthy (if it is in his will)...but just keep moving forward. keep staying strong like you are doing...I cant, however,give you any advice to stop the tears forever, because emotions are something that only the individual can ULTIMATLY conquer, and tame.. But I will give you this."“You don't necessarily have to be in love with this weather to get through it well. It's about attitude. Instead of seeing a gray sky and thinking gray equals bleak and sad and depressing, try something else. Try, when the skies are gray, there's a somber beauty to the landscape. Put a positive spin on it. Confront the dark parts of yourself, and work to banish them with illumination and forgiveness. Your willingness to wrestle with your demons will cause your angels to sing. Use the pain as fuel, as a reminder of your strength.”

what does it mean to be a leader?

A great leader's courage to fulfill HIS vision comes from passion, not position. The way YOU get meaning into YOUR life is to devote YOURSELF to loving OTHERS, devote YOURSELF to the community around YOU, and devote YOURSELF to creating something that gives YOU purpose and meaning. Follow YOUR heart, but be quiet for a while first. Ask questions, then FEEL the answer. Learn to trust YOUR HEART. Be still when YOU have nothing to say; BUT, when genuine passion moves YOU, say what YOU’VE got to say, and say it hot. THEY may forget what YOU said, but THEY will NEVER forget how YOU made THEM feel. Above all, be TRUE to YOURSELF, and if YOU cannot put YOUR heart in it, take YOURSELF out of it. Rest in reason; and move in passion.